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Self-Esteem

As goes a person’s self-esteem so goes the quality of their lives.

Perception dictates reality. People don’t see the world the way it is. They see the world the way they are. “Esteem” simply means the value people place on something. Self-esteem is the value a person places on him or her self. And that value is a direct reflection of a person’s self image.

The problem with changing self-image is that a person’s self-image is practiced almost from the moment they were born. The more that image is practiced the more “normal” it becomes. And that “normal” becomes the lens through which people experience and cause their reality. The change of one’s reality is the result of changing their “normal.”

People protect their “normal” even if it is self-destructive. A negative self-image, upon which is built a person’s self-esteem, sits at the heart of their decision making process. All decisions. As always, change is only a choice if we understand the process between self-image, self-esteem, decisions and the reality that has become “normal” for no other reason than that we practiced it. If we practiced one thing we can learn to practice another.

Topics covered in our various products on self-esteem:

  • Getting to the heart of self-esteem
  • Understanding the role of shame on self-esteem
  • How to build a positive self-esteem
  • Self-esteem and
    • Relationships
    • Spirituality
    • Financial responsibility

on-line seminars

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Understanding our Past  SKU: 1015.MP3
We are all seeded in the past.   You will receive a link to download this product upon completion of your order.
We are all seeded in the past. Our "old lies" were internalized in the past. Unconsciously those "old lies" became the "rails" the train of our lives traveled on. They and the decisions made from them became our "normal." Identifying what those "old lies" are, where they came from and how they gained such power in our lives is a great help in letting them go and moving on.
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Understanding Self  SKU: 1012.MP3
Coming to grips with a "lie."   You will receive a link to download this product upon completion of your order.
Coming to grips with a "lie" we have internalized about ourselves that becomes the data upon which our decisions are made. Bad data equals bad decisions which always leads to painful consequences.
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audio

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Building Self Image  SKU: A110
Learning to be your own best friend .   You will receive a link to download this product upon completion of your order.
The anatomy of self-esteem, keys to greater success, personal application and how to do it.
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Building Self-Esteem   SKU: A601
Learn how shame has affected you, how to change self-defeating behavior and how to build self-esteem.   You will receive a link to download this product upon completion of your order.
What is self-esteem and how shame affects our self-esteem. The shame cycle and how to build a positive self-esteem. Self-esteem and the connections with relationships, spirituality and financial responsibility.
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Busyness Issues & Self-Esteem  SKU: A124
How busyness issues affect self-esteem.   You will receive a link to download this product upon completion of your order.
What is at the core of busyness issues, your right to choose your identity and concrete steps for healing.
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Food Issues & Self-Esteem  SKU: A122
How food issues affect self-esteem.   You will receive a link to download this product upon completion of your order.
What is at the core of food issues, your right to choose your identity and concrete steps for healing.
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Money Issues & Self-Esteem  SKU: A123
How money issues affect self-esteem.   You will receive a link to download this product upon completion of your order.
What is at the core of money issues, your right to choose your identity and concrete steps for healing.
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books

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Believing in Myself  SKU: 6114
Daily Meditations for Healing and Building Self-Esteem
Raising low self-esteem is an essential part of the healing process for those of us recovering from addictions and those who still feel the pain of childhood wounds or abuse. These enlightening meditations address topics such as: how to define ourselves in terms of our own standards and values, how to recognize the difference between conceit and self-approval, how self-doubt triggers unattractive behavior, and how self-esteem blooms when we have a sense of purpose in our lives.
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videos

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Building Self-Confidence  SKU: V501
Why Self-Confidence is the treasure house of successful living.
What constitutes Self-Confidence. The key to building Self-Confidence and how to maintain a healthy Self-Confidence once it is attained. © 1991 Time: 29:19
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Building up our Self-Esteem - Where Giants Walk  SKU: V603
Build self-esteem and overcome the enemy of guilt and shame!
Know that we matter and make such a difference in this world! We can't give what we don't have. We can be giants in our walk. Will we choose to live in the toilet or a palace? ©1993 Time: 32:22
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Dealing with Discouragement  SKU: V503
To recognize the signs of Discouragement and how to avoid Discouragement's powerful pull.
Why Discouragement must always be confronted along the journey of growth. The several causes of Discouragement. And specific powerful strategies in overcoming Discouragement. © 1991 Time 29:00
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High Level Recovery (3)  SKU: V430
Set of 3 videos
Set of 3 videos containing the following titles;
  • Five Myths that Sabotage Recovery (V401) - Reg. $200
  • Dealing with Denial (V402) - Reg. $200
  • Kissing Guilt & Shame Goodbye (V403) - Reg. $200
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Kissing Guilt & Same Goodbye  SKU: V403
The nature and power of guilt can limit the quality of recovery:
What guilt is and is not. How to recognize guilt when a shame attack strikes. And sure fire methods of avoiding falling prey to guilt. © 1991 Time: 28:57
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Lift Up Your Heart Series (3)  SKU: V530
Set of 3 videos
Set of 3 videos containing the following titles;
  • Building Self-Confidence (V501) - Reg. $200
  • Overcoming Fear (V502) - Reg. $200
  • Dealing With Discouragement (V503) - Reg. $200
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Step by Step Series (4)  SKU: V640
Set of 4 videos
Set of 4 videos containing the following titles;
  • Taking Personal Responsibility - Fighting the Good Fight (V601) - Reg. $200
  • Avoiding the Slips - Working a Program of Inches (V602) - Reg. $200
  • Building Up Our Self-Esteem - Where Giants Walk (V603) - Reg. $200
  • Rage is Optional - Learning to Deal With Our Rage and Anger (V604) - Reg. $200
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