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Every topic dealt with in our CHANGE IS A CHOICE site is about change.  Every product is aimed at making change a genuine choice. Change of course can be positive or negative.  We are only concerned with the negative aspects of life in so far as understanding them aids our choices about making positive change in our lives.

Positive change is at the core of every effort to move into a more spiritual, human way of living.  Making positive change is arguably the main purpose of every persons life.   The task of repaying the gift of life is to make of it everything that we can. A  Which is to make and keep making positive change through out life.

But making change requires more than good will or wishing.  There are rules to making change. Change has requirements and commitments.  Understanding those rules and commitments goes a long way to help fulfill the task of growing as human beings.


Topics covered in our various products on change:

• Understanding the nature of change
• What change requires
• Facing the obstacles of change
• Why change is worth the effort
• How to work a program of making change happen

on-line seminars
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Understanding Change  SKU: 1013.MP3 No one can out perform their own self-image.    Real change comes from an in depth replacing the "old lie" with a new truth. This new internalized new truth creates a different definition of self than was possible while operating from the "old lie." No one can out perform their own self- image. The task is to make sure our self- image is positive.	$17.00	Add
Understanding our Past  SKU: 1015.MP3 We are all seeded in the past.    We are all seeded in the past. Our "old lies" were internalized in the past. Unconsciously those "old lies" became the "rails" the train of our lives traveled on. They and the decisions made from them became our "normal." Identifying what those "old lies" are, where they came from and how they gained such power in our lives is a great help in letting them go and moving on.	$17.00	Add
Understanding Self  SKU: 1012.MP3 Coming to grips with a "lie."    Coming to grips with a "lie" we have internalized about ourselves that becomes the data upon which our decisions are made. Bad data equals bad decisions which always leads to painful consequences.	$17.00	Add
Understanding Working a Program  SKU: 1014.MP3 Working a program simply means practice.    The more focused the practice, the more efficient the change. Effective programs are concrete, practical and focused.	$17.00	Add

audio
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12 Steps as Learning to Love  SKU: A104 Each of the 12 steps is taken separately.    How practicing the 12 Steps enables us to function more successfully in loving relationships. How the 12 Steps teach us to love.	$11.00	Add
Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families  SKU: A604 Until a person who has grown up in a dysfunctional home deals with the unavoidable consequences of that upbringing, he or she, in a very real sense, never leaves home.    Knowledge is power. It is never too late for an Adult Child to close the door on the past and learn to move ahead with courage and confidence. Examining the Adult Child Syndrome itself, assessing your own family of origin, understanding the relationships between feelings and recovery, recognizing the characteristic problem patterns of Adult Children in personal relationships and examples of successful re-direction.	$37.00	Add
All I Ever Wanted Was to be Loved  SKU: A121 Intimacy Issues.    The double bind: 1) All I ever wanted was to be loved 2) The enormous obstacles to achieving that love. What can be done to break the cycle and a message of help and hope.	$11.00	Add
Anger, Depression and Indecision  SKU: A610 Healing what hurts.    Explains how anger is a process that keeps the individual enclosed in a cycle of frustrated recovery efforts. It includes how anger blocks recovery, the faces of anger, depression and grief as "children of anger," indecision as choosing to stay stuck and meditations to speed healing.	$37.00	Add
Connections of the Heart  SKU: A614 The in-depth healing of those parts of our lives that are most wounded.    Connections of the heart means we can only heal what we allow ourselves to feel. Feeling can hurt...but beyond that hurt lies the source of profound joy. Expecting good versus settling for less, understanding our models..."Baby Flesh," techniques of finding our way home, other ways of connecting to our heart, setting healthy boundaries and letting go.	$37.00	Add
Finding Emotional Balance  SKU: A117 Powerful role emotions play in our lives.    A basic flaw in dealing with emotions, understanding the difference between painful emotions and correct behavior, how to change the way you feel why support is critical and being gentle with yourself.	$11.00	Add
Stage II Recovery  SKU: A608 At the core of every person is the need for the self-esteem to love and be loved, to be both willing and able to function in loving relationships.    This series starts with a discussion of these needs, and from there investigates the range of self-defeating, learned behaviors that prevent these needs from being met. It includes Family of origin work, understanding co-dependency, recognizing habits and how they affect us, understanding the dynamics of change, how to work a program that will work for you and learning the dynamics of relationships.	$37.00	Add