Online Seminars

There is a common process going on behind every label (such as dry drunk, co-dependant, shame based, adult child etc.) That process is the cause of most of the pain in our lives. Understanding that process is the foundation for moving from self-defeating actions to those of self-acceptance and self-love. Learning self-love is a process just as learning self-contempt is a process. The first four sessions of these on-line seminars provides a foundation that teaches this process and provides the "road map" for personally embracing and understanding this process in the context of our lives.

Coming to grips with our powerful past is difficult for many people. For many the task seems beyond their power and energy. Understanding the "rules of the road" in doing this inner child work however has freed up many people to go forward in this all-important piece of work.

Concrete steps are provided here to act as sign posts along the way of this inner journey. Here is a road map of how to do the work and where it fits in with the overall goal of replacing the learned "old lie" with a new truth born of self-compassion. All personal growth is involved with moving from self-defeating beliefs and behaviors to those of self-compassion and self-love.

Letting go of what holds us back is a supreme act of self-compassion. But letting go of what hurts us is often no easy task. If it were we would have done it long ago. Here are concrete steps of discovering WHAT we need to let go of and WHY it is important and HOW to accomplish this critical step as we move along the process of passing to a deeper spiritual freedom.

Real change comes from an in depth replacing the "old lie" with a new truth. This new internalized new truth creates a different definition of self than was possible while operating from the "old lie." No one can out perform their own self- image. The task is to make sure our self- image is positive.

We are all seeded in the past. Our "old lies" were internalized in the past. Unconsciously those "old lies" became the "rails" the train of our lives traveled on. They and the decisions made from them became our "normal." Identifying what those "old lies" are, where they came from and how they gained such power in our lives is a great help in letting them go and moving on.

Coming to grips with a "lie" we have internalized about ourselves that becomes the data upon which our decisions are made. Bad data equals bad decisions which always leads to painful consequences.

The more focused the practice, the more efficient the change. Effective programs are concrete, practical and focused.

We are all seeded in the past. Our "old lies" were internalized in the past. Unconsciously those "old lies" became the "rails" the train of our lives traveled on. They and the decisions made from them became our "normal." Identifying what those "old lies" are, where they came from and how they gained such power in our lives is a great help in letting them go and moving on.

Coming to grips with a "lie" we have internalized about ourselves that becomes the data upon which our decisions are made. Bad data equals bad decisions which always leads to painful consequences.

Real change comes from an in depth replacing the "old lie" with a new truth. This new internalized new truth creates a different definition of self than was possible while operating from the "old lie." No one can out perform their own self- image. The task is to make sure our self- image is positive.

The more focused the practice, the more efficient the change. Effective programs are concrete, practical and focused.

Sometimes people are well aware of who hurt them in the past or present. Often becoming self-aware (through doing understanding the past and inner child work) brings to the surface resentments long held but not consciously recognized. All hurts must be forgiven. Not to forgive is to sentence self to a ceaseless cycle of pain. Therefore it is important to know what forgiveness means and what it does not mean.

Letting go of what holds us back is a supreme act of self-compassion. But letting go of what hurts us is often no easy task. If it were we would have done it long ago. Here are concrete steps of discovering WHAT we need to let go of and WHY it is important and HOW to accomplish this critical step as we move along the process of passing to a deeper spiritual freedom.

Setting and maintaining healthy boundaries is essential for achieving a reasonably happy life. Bad boundaries - and the anguish they cause - are the result of acting out of flawed and unhealthy self-understanding. Bad boundaries come from "old lies." Healthy boundary setting comes from and is made possible by replacing the "old lie" with a new truth.

Real change comes from an in depth replacing the "old lie" with a new truth. This new internalized new truth creates a different definition of self than was possible while operating from the "old lie." No one can out perform their own self- image. The task is to make sure our self- image is positive.

We are all seeded in the past. Our "old lies" were internalized in the past. Unconsciously those "old lies" became the "rails" the train of our lives traveled on. They and the decisions made from them became our "normal." Identifying what those "old lies" are, where they came from and how they gained such power in our lives is a great help in letting them go and moving on.

Coming to grips with a "lie" we have internalized about ourselves that becomes the data upon which our decisions are made. Bad data equals bad decisions which always leads to painful consequences.

The more focused the practice, the more efficient the change. Effective programs are concrete, practical and focused.

Letting go of what holds us back is a supreme act of self-compassion. But letting go of what hurts us is often no easy task. If it were we would have done it long ago. Here are concrete steps of discovering WHAT we need to let go of and WHY it is important and HOW to accomplish this critical step as we move along the process of passing to a deeper spiritual freedom.

Sometimes people are well aware of who hurt them in the past or present. Often becoming self-aware (through doing understanding the past and inner child work) brings to the surface resentments long held but not consciously recognized. All hurts must be forgiven. Not to forgive is to sentence self to a ceaseless cycle of pain. Therefore it is important to know what forgiveness means and what it does not mean.

We are all seeded in the past. Our "old lies" were internalized in the past. Unconsciously those "old lies" became the "rails" the train of our lives traveled on. They and the decisions made from them became our "normal." Identifying what those "old lies" are, where they came from and how they gained such power in our lives is a great help in letting them go and moving on.

Coming to grips with a "lie" we have internalized about ourselves that becomes the data upon which our decisions are made. Bad data equals bad decisions which always leads to painful consequences.

Part 1 - Coming to grips with our powerful past is difficult for many people. For many the task seems beyond their power and energy. Understanding the “rules of the road” in doing this inner child work however has freed up many people to go forward in this all-important piece of work.

Part 2 - Concrete steps are provided here to act as sign posts along the way of this inner journey. Here is a road map of how to do the work and where it fits in with the overall goal of replacing the learned “old lie” with a new truth born of self-compassion. All personal growth is involved with moving from self-defeating beliefs and behaviors to those of self-compassion and self-love.

Coming to grips with our powerful past is difficult for many people. For many the task seems beyond their power and energy. Understanding the "rules of the road" in doing this inner child work however has freed up many people to go forward in this all-important piece of work.

Concrete steps are provided here to act as sign posts along the way of this inner journey. Here is a road map of how to do the work and where it fits in with the overall goal of replacing the learned "old lie" with a new truth born of self-compassion. All personal growth is involved with moving from self-defeating beliefs and behaviors to those of self-compassion and self-love.

Real change comes from an in depth replacing the "old lie" with a new truth. This new internalized new truth creates a different definition of self than was possible while operating from the "old lie." No one can out perform their own self- image. The task is to make sure our self- image is positive.

We are all seeded in the past. Our "old lies" were internalized in the past. Unconsciously those "old lies" became the "rails" the train of our lives traveled on. They and the decisions made from them became our "normal." Identifying what those "old lies" are, where they came from and how they gained such power in our lives is a great help in letting them go and moving on.

Coming to grips with a "lie" we have internalized about ourselves that becomes the data upon which our decisions are made. Bad data equals bad decisions which always leads to painful consequences.

The more focused the practice, the more efficient the change. Effective programs are concrete, practical and focused.

Sometimes people are well aware of who hurt them in the past or present. Often becoming self-aware (through doing understanding the past and inner child work) brings to the surface resentments long held but not consciously recognized. All hurts must be forgiven. Not to forgive is to sentence self to a ceaseless cycle of pain. Therefore it is important to know what forgiveness means and what it does not mean.

We do not have relationships. We are our relationships. The quality of our lives is a direct reflection of our ability to initiate and participate in healthy relationships. Everyone wants love in his or her lives. But loving and making relationships work are two totally different things. Here we look at key elements of what it takes to make relationships work.

Setting and maintaining healthy boundaries is essential for achieving a reasonably happy life. Bad boundaries - and the anguish they cause - are the result of acting out of flawed and unhealthy self-understanding. Bad boundaries come from "old lies." Healthy boundary setting comes from and is made possible by replacing the "old lie" with a new truth.

We are all seeded in the past. Our "old lies" were internalized in the past. Unconsciously those "old lies" became the "rails" the train of our lives traveled on. They and the decisions made from them became our "normal." Identifying what those "old lies" are, where they came from and how they gained such power in our lives is a great help in letting them go and moving on.

Coming to grips with a "lie" we have internalized about ourselves that becomes the data upon which our decisions are made. Bad data equals bad decisions which always leads to painful consequences.

Sometimes people are well aware of who hurt them in the past or present. Often becoming self-aware (through doing understanding the past and inner child work) brings to the surface resentments long held but not consciously recognized. All hurts must be forgiven. Not to forgive is to sentence self to a ceaseless cycle of pain. Therefore it is important to know what forgiveness means and what it does not mean.

Letting go of what holds us back is a supreme act of self-compassion. But letting go of what hurts us is often no easy task. If it were we would have done it long ago. Here are concrete steps of discovering WHAT we need to let go of and WHY it is important and HOW to accomplish this critical step as we move along the process of passing to a deeper spiritual freedom.

Sometimes people are well aware of who hurt them in the past or present. Often becoming self-aware (through doing understanding the past and inner child work) brings to the surface resentments long held but not consciously recognized. All hurts must be forgiven. Not to forgive is to sentence self to a ceaseless cycle of pain. Therefore it is important to know what forgiveness means and what it does not mean.

Letting go of what holds us back is a supreme act of self-compassion. But letting go of what hurts us is often no easy task. If it were we would have done it long ago. Here are concrete steps of discovering WHAT we need to let go of and WHY it is important and HOW to accomplish this critical step as we move along the process of passing to a deeper spiritual freedom.