Family Issues
By its very nature a dysfunctional home is a
dangerous home. Dangerous in that whatever “truths”
a person learns in their homes is the “truth”
they will follow and cause in all the decisions of his
or her life. And if that “truth” is other
than a solid foundation based on ones worth and rights
– only self-defeating decisions will be made. And
from bad decisions come painful consequences.
No matter how hard a person works at recovery, healing
and spiritual journeying if the dimension of those old,
deep messages are not addressed little progress will
be made. Inner Child work cannot be bypassed on the
way to emotional and spiritual freedom.
There is a direct connection between early messages,
self-esteem and all the decisions a person makes based
on those messages and the consequences that come from
those decisions. It’s all an understandable process.
If that process creates painful consequences then it
is imperative a person understands how that process
functions in his or her self in order to make change.
A person does not have a choice if they do not see the
options.
Topics covered in our various products on adult children:
- Examining the Adult Child syndrome
- Assessing the Adult Child Syndrome in your family
of origin
- How the Adult Child Syndrome affects relationships
- Understanding the connection between Adult Child
syndrome and feelings
- How to “heal” the Adult Child syndrome
in one’s life
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Understanding our Past SKU: 1015.MP3
We are all seeded in the past.
 We are all seeded in the past. Our "old lies" were internalized in the past. Unconsciously those "old lies" became the "rails" the train of our lives traveled on. They and the decisions made from them became our "normal." Identifying what those "old lies" are, where they came from and how they gained such power in our lives is a great help in letting them go and moving on.
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Understanding Self SKU: 1012.MP3
Coming to grips with a "lie."
Coming to grips with a "lie" we have internalized about ourselves that becomes the data upon which our decisions are made. Bad data equals bad decisions which always leads to painful consequences.
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Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families SKU: A604
Until a person who has grown up in a dysfunctional home deals with the unavoidable consequences of that upbringing, he or she, in a very real sense, never leaves home.
Knowledge is power. It is never too late for an Adult Child to close the door on the past and learn to move ahead with courage and confidence. Examining the Adult Child Syndrome itself, assessing your own family of origin, understanding the relationships between feelings and recovery, recognizing the characteristic problem patterns of Adult Children in personal relationships and examples of successful re-direction.
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All I Ever Wanted Was to be Loved SKU: A121
Intimacy Issues.
The double bind: 1) All I ever wanted was to be loved 2) The enormous obstacles to achieving that love. What can be done to break the cycle and a message of help and hope.
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Days of Healing, Days of Joy SKU: 5024
Daily Meditations For Adult Children
From the winter of our doubts and confusion and sadness we waken to a spring of the self-stirring anew. In the days of healing and joy that lie ahead, let this book of daily meditations speak to you, instilling hope and confidence and courage. A year's worth of quotations, meditations, and closing thoughts encourage the small but consistent efforts of those seeking to give voice to the often timid, unsure, and frightened child within. Each day, find in these pages the strength and wisdom and support that light the way to serenity in any season of life
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Domestic Violence Series (4) SKU: V700
Set of 4 videos
Set of 4 videos containing the following titles;
- Where Abusers Come From (V701) - Reg. $200
- How Abusers Think (V702) - Reg. $200
- How Abusers Create the Next Generation (V703) - Reg. $200
- How to Break the Patterns of Criminal Thinking (V704) - Reg. $200
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How Abusers Create the Next Generation SKU: V703
Violence and abuse are generational.
The fact of this generational conditioning to violence and abuse is stressed in this program. The point is strongly made that the next generation of abusers, with all the negative consequences that imply, is being created now at the hand of the client watching this program. Their responsibility for ending this cycle of destruction being visited on their children is clearly and strongly stated. Sharing of the women again greatly strengthens the point of the damage done to children by domestic violence. © 2000 Time: 29:07
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How Abusers Think SKU: V702
Violence is a habit.
At the heart of every habit is a truth learned by harsh experience. This program leads the client to identify the source of this criminal, cognitive impairment. Using the client's own experience of abuse as a starting point, they are led logically and systematically to understand through structured graphs how they perpetuate this habit of violence and abuse. The client is strongly challenged to confront this habit and put an end to it. The women's sharing powerfully attests to the damage done by the men who abuse them in a manner and to a depth as only victims can. © 2000 Time: 31:19
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How to Break the Patterns of Criminal Thinking SKU: V704
Habits, both good and bad are acquired through repetition.
Being willing to face the presence and power of this habit and choosing another course can only accomplish breaking of the habit of abuse. Concrete structures and models are provided to accomplish both the cognitive restructuring and behavior modification to both break the habit of abuse and begin creating new habits of respect and control. The women's sharing both challenges and encourages the men to pursue this course of recovery. © 2000 Time: 30:06
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Where Abusers Come From SKU: V701
A life long habit of violence dulls the recognition of violence and abuse.
Violence and abuse simply become normal. This program takes the client back to the time when they were the victims of abuse and forcefully states, as it was wrong for someone to abuse you so it is wrong for you to abuse anyone else, especially those who love and depend on you. The sharing of the women emphasizes this point with great emotional power. © 2000 Time: 28:30
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