After care

Real change comes from an in depth replacing the "old lie" with a new truth. This new internalized new truth creates a different definition of self than was possible while operating from the "old lie." No one can out perform their own self- image. The task is to make sure our self- image is positive.

We are all seeded in the past. Our "old lies" were internalized in the past. Unconsciously those "old lies" became the "rails" the train of our lives traveled on. They and the decisions made from them became our "normal." Identifying what those "old lies" are, where they came from and how they gained such power in our lives is a great help in letting them go and moving on.

Coming to grips with a "lie" we have internalized about ourselves that becomes the data upon which our decisions are made. Bad data equals bad decisions which always leads to painful consequences.

The more focused the practice, the more efficient the change. Effective programs are concrete, practical and focused.

How practicing the 12 Steps enables us to function more successfully in loving relationships. How the 12 Steps teach us to love.

Knowledge is power. It is never too late for an Adult Child to close the door on the past and learn to move ahead with courage and confidence. Examining the Adult Child Syndrome itself, assessing your own family of origin, understanding the relationships between feelings and recovery, recognizing the characteristic problem patterns of Adult Children in personal relationships and examples of successful re-direction.

Explains how anger is a process that keeps the individual enclosed in a cycle of frustrated recovery efforts. It includes how anger blocks recovery, the faces of anger, depression and grief as "children of anger," indecision as choosing to stay stuck and meditations to speed healing.

Sixteen easy to listen to segments centering on everything a person needs to do to reach their first sober birthday. Each short segment reminds, encourages and supports the person to "keep on keeping on." This series is a must for everyone going through his or her first sober year.

Societal messages. Reversing the stereotype. Steps that help and a serious look at the rewards of doing such work.

How past patterns create present day problems. Techniques for making it personal. Definitions of the co-dependency cycle and why there is always hope.

This series starts with a discussion of these needs, and from there investigates the range of self-defeating, learned behaviors that prevent these needs from being met. It includes Family of origin work, understanding co-dependency, recognizing habits and how they affect us, understanding the dynamics of change, how to work a program that will work for you and learning the dynamics of relationships.

The high price of unresolved anger. What habitual unresolved anger is. The definition of anger and how anger affects our relationships. What can I do about anger?

With Destination Joy, best-loved author Earnie Larsen provides friendly and expert roadside assistance to weary travelers on recovery's path. Whether you've hit an obstacle in your recovery from addiction, you're experiencing periodic relapse, or you're simply longing for something more, here is a true and certain guide to living more abundantly in recovery. In sharing many different stories of recovering people and the various paths they have taken, Larsen explores ways you can bring greater love, acceptance, and belonging into your life.

Those who plug into a solid aftercare program are less likely to relapse. During the first, all-important year of sobriety, clients will have questions about relapse, sponsorship, spirituality, and building a support network. With clarity and insight, Earnie Larsen serves as a personal recovery coach, offering words of wisdom and inspiration and practical advice to help clients develop and effective aftercare plan in this portable aftercare program.

Stage II Recovery is the answer. Earnie Larsen, a dynamic speaker and a pioneer thinker in the field of chemical dependency, says that sustained abstinence from an addiction is only the first stage of recovery. Real recovery begins with what he calls Stage II -- the rebuilding of the life that was saved in Stage I. This inspiring, practical guide offers breakthrough information on how to see and change learned self-defeating behavior and make relationships work -- which is at the core of full recovery.

Popular author and workshop leader Earnie Larsen offers clear and practical techniques for couples and families who have faced the issue of addiction and are now striving to bring health and vitality to their relationships. In his earlier book, Stage II Recovery, Larsen introduced the idea that making relationships work is at the heart of full recovery from addictions.

In Stage II Relationships, he explores this theme in depth, offering sound advice and practical techniques for breaking unhealthy patterns of behavior that linger after sobriety has been achieved. Larsen stresses that abstaining chemically dependent people and those who love them (co-dependents) must face together the issues of self-esteem and intimacy, the problems of everyday living, and the challenge of learning to function more capably in healthy, caring relationships.

Such as: stinkin' thinkin', avoidance of slippery people and places, things we must do, a bag of tricks, and a Power greater than ourselves. Know what we have to gain! © 1993 Time: 32:22

We learn the importance of dealing with life issues that remain for the addict after the addiction has been arrested: Every addict is always co-dependent, denial of these co-dependent issues invites relapse and denial easily leads to switched addictions in recovery. © 1991 Time: 29:26

Why Discouragement must always be confronted along the journey of growth. The several causes of Discouragement. And specific powerful strategies in overcoming Discouragement. © 1991 Time 29:00

What "Myths" are, what the five mistakes are and what healthy "shoulds" are. © 1991 Time: 28:54

• Five Myths that Sabotage Recovery (V401) - Reg. $200
• Dealing with Denial (V402) - Reg. $200
• Kissing Guilt & Shame Goodbye (V403) - Reg. $200

What guilt is and is not. How to recognize guilt when a shame attack strikes. And sure fire methods of avoiding falling prey to guilt. © 1991 Time: 28:57

Set of 3 videos containing the following titles;

• Building Self-Confidence (V501) - Reg. $200
• Overcoming Fear (V502) - Reg. $200
• Dealing With Discouragement (V503) - Reg. $200

• Relapse (V201) - Reg. $200
• Family (V202) - Reg. $200
• Doing a 4th & 5th Step (V203) - Reg. $200
• Seeking and Finding Your Higher Power (V204) - Reg. $200
• Unresolved Anger (V205) - Reg. $200

In this program, Earnie makes it abundantly clear that, although "slips" or relapses are serious, they are not fatal. The point in this session is that relapse will not occur if we work a tight, effective program. Earnie shos how to work an effective program, how to do the 10th Step and stay accountable for behaviors that could result in relapse. © 1989 Time: 34:15

The ability to turn our lives over to a power greater than ourselves. Not having had the experience of trusting or counting on someone being there for us becomes the primary spiritual obstacle. Earnie invites the group to build on the treatment experience as a beginning place to trust a power greater than ourselves...The Higher Power. ©1989 Time: 32:30

• Stage II, Part 1 (V101) - Reg. $200
• Stage II, Part 2 (V102) - Reg. $200
• Relationships (V103) - Reg. $200
• Working a Program (V104) - Reg. $200

• Taking Personal Responsibility - Fighting the Good Fight (V601) - Reg. $200
• Avoiding the Slips - Working a Program of Inches (V602) - Reg. $200
• Building Up Our Self-Esteem - Where Giants Walk (V603) - Reg. $200
• Rage is Optional - Learning to Deal With Our Rage and Anger (V604) - Reg. $200

What was the Solution to the Problem and how to work the Steps. Have we lost their vision? ©2007 Time: 25:00

Set of 5 videos containing the following titles;

• The Basics (V801) - Reg. $200
• Working The Steps (V802) - Reg. $200
• Emotional Management (V803) - Reg. $200
• Working Your Personal Program (V804) - Reg. $200
• Healing The Deeper Hurt...Stage III Recovery (V805) - Reg. $200

This involves dialogue, positive redirection, proper nutrition and other daily and weekly practices. This outlines a program and show its benefits in recovery. ©1985 Time: 31:00

This adds a dimension to the steps often missed today. Learn the connection between "working the Steps" and 'having a spiritual awakening.' © 2007 Time: 25:46