Abuse Issues

Everyone fights a hard battle. There is no such thing as a perfect person, parent or family. Nearly everyone can tell some sad stories from their past. But for some the damage done is more than a sad story. For some the damage rises to the level of various degrees of Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome. In this case if the nature and presence of this syndrome are not recognized there is little hope of moving forward into a satisfying life. In some cases if “healing” does not take place genuine disaster happens.

The first victim of abuse is always self-compassion. Abuse victims find it impossible to value him or her self. Due to the very real psychological and physiological damage they treat themselves as if they deserve the disaster they bring on themselves. The “reality” of an abuse survivor who experiences a degree of Post Traumatic Stress has very little in common with the “reality” of those not so afflicted. And so their sense of alienation and isolation is increased beyond measure.

As a society we mostly associate PTSD with veterans returning from war. This is certainly correct. The need to treat our returning veterans is a burning responsibility for the nation. But they are far from the only survivors of trauma among us. Many people on the path of recovery and deeper spirituality suffer with the presence of unrecognized PTSD. Until there is recognition and healing steps taken they will remain stuck in their trauma.

Topics covered in our various products dealing with abuse issues:

• Understanding the nature of abuse and
• Coming to grips with its presence in a person's life
• Symptoms of PTSD
• Effects of PTSD on a life
• Five steps of moving toward “healing”

on-line seminars
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Complete Foundation Series  SKU: 4010 The Four Part Foundation Series    There is a common process going on behind every label (such as dry drunk, co-dependant, shame based, adult child etc.) That process is the cause of most of the pain in our lives. Understanding that process is the foundation for moving from self-defeating actions to those of self-acceptance and self-love. Learning self-love is a process just as learning self-contempt is a process. The first four sessions of these on-line seminars provides a foundation that teaches this process and provides the "road map" for personally embracing and understanding this process in the context of our lives.	$49.00	Add
Inner Child Work, Part 1  SKU: 1016.MP3 Coming to grips with our powerful past is difficult for many people. For many the task seems beyond their power and energy.    Coming to grips with our powerful past is difficult for many people. For many the task seems beyond their power and energy. Understanding the "rules of the road" in doing this inner child work however has freed up many people to go forward in this all-important piece of work.	$17.00	Add
Inner Child Work, Part 2  SKU: 1017.MP3 Concrete steps are provided here to act as sign posts along the way of this inner journey.    Concrete steps are provided here to act as sign posts along the way of this inner journey. Here is a road map of how to do the work and where it fits in with the overall goal of replacing the learned "old lie" with a new truth born of self-compassion. All personal growth is involved with moving from self-defeating beliefs and behaviors to those of self-compassion and self-love.	$17.00	Add
Learning to Let Go  SKU: 1021.MP3 Letting go of what holds us back is a supreme act of self-compassion.    Letting go of what holds us back is a supreme act of self-compassion. But letting go of what hurts us is often no easy task. If it were we would have done it long ago. Here are concrete steps of discovering WHAT we need to let go of and WHY it is important and HOW to accomplish this critical step as we move along the process of passing to a deeper spiritual freedom.	$17.00	Add

audio
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All I Ever Wanted Was to be Loved  SKU: A121 Intimacy Issues.    The double bind: 1) All I ever wanted was to be loved 2) The enormous obstacles to achieving that love. What can be done to break the cycle and a message of help and hope.	$11.00	Add
Healing a Torn Soul  SKU: A616 Many of us have been deeply hurt by life.    The effects of that wound show up in our present life in a variety of ways though the original wound may be years or decades old. Some people say, "let sleeping dogs lie" but we know these dogs aren't sleeping. Are you suffering the effects of long ago hurt, are you tired of making the same old disastrous decisions based on false trauma-driven data, are you willing, with help, to face deep fear, guilt and shame and are you willing to finally learn self-understanding, self-forgiveness and self-compassion. We guarantee a safe, supportive atmosphere to begin or continue this work of deep healing.	$37.00	Add
Healing the Inner Child  SKU: A612 You cannot bypass the inner child on the way to freedom.    Why Inner Child work is so important and how the Inner Child becomes Adult Children issue. How grief, anger, fear and shame are rooted in the Inner Child. What "healing" the Inner Child means and how to escape your past and why there is always hope.	$37.00	Add